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Beautiful one,
Life can be hard & challenging seasons often leave us feeling alone. With that in mind, this space was created especially for you. This is a place, where your heart can heal and feel supported. Here, you are not alone. My desire is to link arms with you, cheer you on through the ups and downs of life, and, most importantly, remind you of the faithfulness of God in every season of life!
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Healing from Life’s Deepest Hurts: Reclaiming Your Life After Grief, Loss, or Trauma is now available for pre order.
Hey there, I´m Kim
I’m a licensed professional counselor and licensed marriage and family therapist with over 17 years of experience helping others find healing and wholeness in life.
I am passionate about empowering women to become the best version of themselves and step into who God designed them to be. We focus on helping women get “unstuck” from their pain and find the freedom to move forward. Because of that, I authentically share my powerful testimony of overcoming adversity and what it means to go from asking “why me?” to “what now?”
Hope-Giver | Jesus Worshipper | Ultimate Cheerleader
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I love speaking to women that need a reminder they are not alone, that they can be restored and live a life of purpose.
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LOVELY NOTES
Dorothy Enns
Co-Founder of Good Word Ministries & Women’s Bible Study Leader
“We wholeheartedly endorse Kim Haar as a speaker.
Without a doubt, she stands out as one of our most requested and cherished voices. Kim possesses a remarkable gift of wit and humor that captivates audiences, keeping them on the edge of their seats. Her compelling testimony, filled with encouraging words, inspires women to rise resiliently after facing life’s challenges.”
Lisa Bain
Lisa Bain Ministries, Tulsa, Oklahoma
“I can sincerely say that I have never encountered anyone as inspiring as Kim Haar.
The first time I heard her story, I was truly in awe. Since then, I have been following her closely and had the privilege of hosting her on my monthly vlog, Treasure Talks. The response to her sharing was overwhelming, reaching far and wide. Kim is genuinely authentic – she is the real deal! Kim has navigated through tragedy and transformed it into an incredible message of healing for many.”
Keepin’ It Real Podcast
We are real-life friends who discuss real-life problems in a real-life way. As you listen to this podcast, we celebrate the good, support you through the bad, and point you to a real-life God who has the answers. We invite you to join us at our table, where together we’ll laugh, sometimes we’ll cry, but most importantly, we promise to show up and do real life together. Kim Haar is a licensed professional counselor and licensed marriage and family therapist with over a decade of experience helping others find healing and wholeness in life. Her heart for counseling for women in Tulsa has shaped so much of the practical wisdom she brings to each conversation. Kim Spence is all about story. Whether it’s through ghostwriting, book coaching, podcasting or legacy stories, she is passionate about helping others bring their story to life.
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How to Protect Your Peace Without Feeling Guilty
I've learned something about myself over the years. My heart says "yes" long before my calendar—or my emotional capacity—does. Someone reaches out needing counseling, and I immediately think, I can help. One of my kids needs me, and without hesitation I say, Of...
Finding Joy While You’re Still Healing
As a therapist, I often encourage my clients to look for moments of joy in the middle of difficult seasons. Not because joy erases pain, but because when life feels heavy, our hearts sometimes need help remembering that sorrow isn't the only thing still present. ...
What Are You Carrying That God Never Asked You to Carry?
Lately, I've been asking myself a simple question: What am I carrying that God never asked me to carry? I'm not talking about a physical burden. I'm talking about the emotional weight of things I can't control. Maybe you know that feeling too. Worry about a loved one....